RANDOM THOUGHTS : Jangan takut, rezeki tidak akan tertukar!

Jangan takut, rezeki tidak akan tertukar!

Itulah yang saya tanamkan dalam diri saya saat melihat teman-teman update pekerjaan barunya di media social, tentu saja saya iri dan marah sama diri saya sendiri, apakah ada yang kurang dari CV saya?? Bukan bermaksud sombong atau bagaimana, skill saya berbicara, berorganisasi, berkomunikasi dan menulis lebih baik dibandingkan teman-teman saya yang sudah lebih dahulu diterima kerja.

Memang mencari pekerjaan tidak semudah membalikkan telapak tangan, sebelum saya bekerja di perusahaan saya sekarang saya beberapa kali mencoba melamar ke perusahaan besar maupun startup, dari yang sesuai dengan ilmu disiplin saya sampai yang melenceng dan tidak ada hubungannya dengan major saya, sangking saya sangat ingin bekerja dan tidak menambah beban Negara dengan menjadi pengangguran, apa mau dikata penolakan selalu jawabannya, dari mulai melamar pekerjaan online sampai offline saya pernah cicipi, melamar di sebuah website pencari kerja, mulai dari di view, not-suitable, sampai lamarannya expired alias tidak ada jawaban. Kalaupun ke jobfair saya hanya 5menit karena dipastikan jarang ada posisi yang sesuai dengan major saya. Yah mungkin memang pekerjaan tersebut bukan yang terbaik untuk saya.

Saya bertanya ke teman-teman saya yang sudah diterima kerja diberbagai perusahaan, model cv, resume, semua hal saya tanyakan, mungkin saya melakukan kesalahan sampai 2bulan saya melamar kesana kemari tidak kunjung mendapat jawaban atau bahkan panggilan interview sekalipun.

Saya sudah melewati masa ditanya tetangga, teman bahkan saudara saya kerja dimana, alasannya “baru kemarin wisuda hehe” tapi kehidupan dan penyiksaan sesungguhnya terjadi setelah ijazah keluar, mau pakai alasan apalagi??

Mau nggak mau saya semakin sering buka jobstreet, studentjob, dan website pencari kerja lainnya, semakin sering berdoa dan minta doa dari orang-orang terdekat.

Dan akhirnya, setelah 3minggu menyandang status pengangguran ada dua perusahaan yang menawarkan pekerjaan, yang satu startup dan yang satunya perusahaan besar. Puji Tuhan! Sebelum memilih pekerjaan saya yang sekarang ini saya galau selama 3hari, karena perusahaan tempat saya bekerja ini tidak kunjung memberikan kabar, saya galau dan belum pernah segalau ini di hidup saya, karena berbagai macam pertimbangan dan potensi kedepannya akhirnya saya memilih perusahaan sekarang saya bekerja ini.

Untuk teman-teman yang masih dan akan berjuang mencari pekerjaan, tetaplah berjuang. Jangan mengenal kata menyerah apalagi lelah, semua sudah ada yang mengatur. Dan Yang mengatur pasti memberikan yang terbaik untuk kalian, jangan kecewa jika ada penolakan, tetapi tetap berfikir positif bahwa itu bukan merupakan pekerjaan yang terbaik untuk kalian. Dan tips terakhir, selalu dikelilingi oleh orang-orang yang positif!

Stay positive!

Lots Of Love

Rosi

ROSI ON VACATION : COMPLETE GUIDE TO YOGYAKARTA 2D1N (plus itinerary)

Whats up! Kali ini saya akan menulis perjalanan setelah wisuda, ke Yogyakarta. Saya sudah merencanakan liburan ini bersama sahabat saya, kita berencana akan backpacking kesana. Jadi mau tau ceritanya gimana dua gadis bertualang di Yogyakarta? let's check this out!

Sebelum saya berangkat ke Yogya, saya terlebih dahulu merencanakan mau kemana dan bagaimana cara kita kesana, sempat terpikir untuk membawa motor dari Semarang ke Yogya tapi pasti itu adalah bad idea. Akhirnya kita memutuskan untuk sewa motor selama di Yogya untuk memudahkan akomodasi. Tapi ingat, hanya hari kedua, hari pertama kita keliling Yogya menggunakan TransYogya untuk meminimalisi budget akomodasi (karena fokus kita di makanan (dont judge)) . Untuk penginapan? Percayakan teman, saudara, atau siapapun yang kamu kenal di Yogya, pasti punya kan? yakali nggak punya orang yang bisa ditumpang selama di Yogya, karena terakhir saya check di website agoda, penginapan berbentuk dorm paling murah di Yogya adalah Rp 80.000,- wow cukup untuk membeli 2buah daster di Bringharjo. 

Untuk motor, berbekal Instagram kita contact semua sewa motor di Yogya dengan Hastag #SewaMotorYogya dan happy hunting! Kita ketemu dengan Mas Atiko, deal Ro 60.000,-/Hari waw belum dibagi dua dengan sahabat saya, bensin? Premium Rp 10.000,- cukup. Okay kita mulai ya!

Day One :

07.00 am Berangkat ke Yogya dari terminal bayangan Sukun Semarang, perjalanan kira-kira ditempuh selama 3jam, bayangkan 3jam. Ya saya memilih tidur, karena saya bangun jam 5 untuk make-up and stuff jadi ya lumayan.

10.00 am tiba di terminal jombor, kita langsung naik Trans Yogya menuju Prambanan, dan jangan lupa siapkan E-money or flazz atau semacamnya karena penting banget buat kamu yang travelling di kota yang sudah punya transportasi publik kayak Yogya ini. Kemudian kita naik 2A/2B saya lupa pokoknya nanti transit di terminal condong catur, kemudian naik 3B transit lagi baru deh naik 1A arah prambanan. Tips nih ya, sebenernya ada 1A dari Jombor langsung ke Prambanan tapi lama sekali nunggunya. Jadi naik aja seadanya tapi tanya dulu ya ke mbak/masnya.

11.30 am sampai di Prambanan, bohong. Hanya haltenya saja, jarak dari halte ke Prambanan sekitar 200m, ikutin aja arahnya. Keluar halte belok kiri kemudian luruuusss terus. Capek sih, tapi tenang banyak bule bule juga yang ikutan jalan kaki, jadi ya sekalian cuci mata hehe. Tiket masuk cukup Rp 30.000,- aja sudah bisa keliling candi prambanan. What I dont like about this temple adalah jarak pintu masuk ke Candi begitu dekat, tapi pintu keluar begitu jauh. Ya namanya juga marketing, jadinya kita harus lewat yang jual-jual souvenir Yogya deh oh ya ada rusa juga tapi sayang banget tempatnya gersang, kasian hewan-hewannya kepanasan. Ps: kalau mau beli oleh-oleh disini aja, soalnya lebih murah daripada Malioboro

 Prambanan 2016

With my BFF Nadia, dont forget your sunglasses !

12.30 pm kita memutuskan untuk kembali ke kota, jalan lagi dari Prambanan ke halte. Kita menolak naik becak karena kita mau sekalian makan siang disekitaran Prambanan, ada Sop Ayam Klaten, Chinese Food ya tinggal dipilih aja maunya apa. 

02.00 pm lanjut ke kota naik Trans menuju Malioboro, jadi kita langsung aja naik 1A ke Malioboro, kita udah capek jalan, jadi cuma ke Museum Benteng Vrederburg dengan harga Rp 2000,- kamu udah bisa mencoba Museum yang super canggih di pusat kota Yogya ini. Sambil nunggu meet up sama Mas atiko pemilik motor kita chill dulu aja di cafe indische, masih di sekitaran area Museum kok. Harga? Murah serius gak boong.

 Tiket Masuk Museum

04.00 pm menuju halte untuk ke terminal condong catur, kenapa condongcatur karena kita mau ke daerah Gejayan. Beberapa kali dioper sama Trans alias transit, akhirnya sampai terminal concat sekitar 2jam kemudian. Quick tips nih, sebaiknya kamu bener-bener pelajari banget jalur bus di Yogya karena kalo enggak kamu bakalan dibawa muter sampai bandara padahal jaraknya sangat amat dekat.

Setelah ketemu mas Atiko dan minta maaf karena telat 1jam akhirnya kita on the way daerah gejayan, karena sangat amat dekat hanya tinggal lurus dari terminal condong catur. Ya, kamu kalo suka ke Yogya dan suka banget kuliner tapi gak bikin kantong bolong coba aja telurusin daerah Gejayan ini, ini area kampus sih jadi makanannya murah dan enak. Hari itu saya memutuskan untuk makan di Nanamia Pizzeria, karena Authentic Italian Pasta for Rp 35.000 only? Du'uh

08.00 pm kita capek dan langsung kerumah tante saya untuk menginap. Rumah tante saya di dekat kampus UPN jadi hanya 10menit dari Gejayan. 

DAY TWO :

09.00 am berangkat kita ke Tamansari, bermodal Gmaps dan banyak nyasarnya karena kita berdua sama-sama sulit membedakan kanan dan kiri akhirnya sampai juga disana. Tiket Rp 5.000 aja sister.

Kita gak pake tourguide karena? mahal, jadi tips irit selanjutnya ikut aja rombongan besar terus dengerin deh apa kata Tourguidenya, hehehe. Jadi tamansari ini tempat mandi para selir Sultan, secara kita berdua princess, tak akan terlewat tempat seperti ini. Haha

10.30 am cuss ketemu teman saya Kiki di Tempo Gelato daerah Prawirotaman inisih Balinya Yogya guys jadi jangan kaget banyak Pub disana, ya karena ini tempat hitz gelato di Yogya jadilah sangat amat ramai sekali. Untuk rasa? saya pilih artemy !

12.00 pm its shopping time! Naik motor dan parkir di Mall Maliboro kemudian jalan ke Mirota kemudian Bringharjo, you know just girls things.Tips menawar di Bringharjo : 1. Cari toko yang jauh dari pintu masuk, kemudian memelas bilang "Saya dari Semarang, pingin beliin oleh-oleh tapi uang saya cuma sedikit" skill bahasa Jawa juga tolong dikeluarkan ya !

03.30 pm meluncur ke bakpia enak di Yogya bukan bakpia patuk ya ini ya agak modern dan lebih enak untuk saya personal namanya Kurnia Sari. 1 pack 40.000 aja. Lokasinya di kawasan ringroad, arah terminal Jombor. Bisa googling kan? eh

05.00 pm mengembalikan motor ke yang punya kemudian naik bus kembali ke Semarang

Well, I think that's it for this post. I really love Jogja more than Semarang I believe you guys have your own memories about this lovely city, so it was so pleasant to share my journey to you. Feel free to ask about this trip !

Lots of Love
XoXo
Rosi

Random Thoughts : Insecurities

I can not sleep last night, there are few things that bothered me last night. I dont know, I should not have to think about this. But the more i tried to shut my eyes the harder i fall asleep. Maybe just maybe, this few things bothered you as well. They are beauty and future.

I know, i shouldnt think about my body but i can not. I was so stress last night because i have few acnes big one and i felt like they are covering all over my face (Re: acne) I know its just small thing and yet its normal to have an acne because of hormone, but for me its big deal, i do want to have smooth yet glowing without pimples in my face. I feel i am not pretty because i have an acne, i tried everything to remove them but they are just keep coming from no where. I eat healthy, but still it doesnt work. It makes me uncomfortable to go outside, its just shamefull for me.

Second one, i keep gaining weight. I hate gaining weight, who loves it by the way. I am at home and its hard to control wahtever i ate, then i didnt do workout for almost 3months. Thats very sad. I hate this feeling, means i have to go diet and workout. And by gaining weight i dont like wearing tanktop or sexy dress because i have big arms. Like very big.

I know that you girls or even boys maybe feeling about this at least once in your life time. You know its normal, i am just making drama in my life that both of that things really matter for me. Its just a big liar that someone said “the only matter is pretty inside” oh bitch shut up, you dont know anything, your bae wont see first if you are often giving your money to beggar but first your face and body.

I do need help, I do need positive mind that i dont have to think about this. But for me everytime i go outside its my own catwalk and i dont want to dissapoint my audience by showing bad apperance. No never in my life.

But you know, if you have money means you have everything by everything i mean include pretty face. Well pretty hurts just like Beyonce said, so do whatever makes you pretty, Victoria’s Secret Angels have made new “standard” of being pretty and its unfair. No dont follow them, just be your self, buy cheap lipstick and expensive skin care, buy size S at H&M ( i gained one size to S before i used to buy XS ). Just remember, everytime you go outside its your own catwalk use and wear whatever you feel like you are Kendall Jenner, always looks presentable, fuck the people who used to mock you “fat” or “getting fatter” they dont know your struggles.

XoXo

Lots Of Love

Rosi

Bawen, 25 June 2016

Bawen, 25 Juni 2016

I have never feeling this well, i am surprisingly enjoying my way home by train. I looked up at the scenery its prettier than usual, the sea, the rice fields. The passenger said you only hate the road when you are on our way home. But this time no, i really like it. I remember the first time came to this city alone, full of hate because i know Semarang will be not as good as Jakarta. But i like semarang lots, i am feeling homey here. Someone once said home is not about the place but the feeling.

Its been a while since the last time i read the book, it is very good this time. Murakami succesfully impresed me by his brilliant book, i forgot how good is it to read a book to kill your time with imagination inside the book.

I will miss this time, the road that i used to hate the most, bekasi-semarang. I know sometime i will love this road trip to find my real "home" in semarang. Thanks for the memories, loves, and new friends.

Project Of Happiness : Last Day!

So hello guys! terima kasih karena POH sudah mencapai hari terakhir, lebih dari satu bulan saya menulis POH dan making memories with my close friends in Semarang.

So this post tribute to my closest friends in Semarang, that always making my day positive and happy even in the worst situation. 

So I met them in my first year of uni, simple we were close because we have close student number, then it grew because we always back to our hometown together. Long story short, we are really close till now, we i mean me and my other 9 friends. They are Opa, Mba Dindak, Pika, Kikay, Aini, Indah, Cinting, KK Cula, and Ika. We are so close that other gang is jealous, we are the longest friendship, 4years without drama, 4years full of laugh. No on cant beat them making stories funnier. 

Oh, no we are not the prettiest girl at our campus, but we are the cutest the dumbest, the friendship goal that you are jealous for. I dont need pretty nor high end friends, just friends that making me laugh and ready to give me warm hug when i needed the most because i am living far from my parents and Nadia. So they are the best of the best inner circle i have ever met.

 Ika's Final Presentation

 Mba Dindak's Final Presentation

Cinting's Final Presentation

Hoping this is not our last iftaar :)

This is the time for us to say see you to each other, This is the time i say see you again, in a good way, it has been good 4years of my life, i am sorry for my greedy, ego, anger, and stuf. And thanks for making me freak enough until this point. Finding our path, new chapter of our life, hoping this friendship will last forever. Semoga beneran jadi sosialita ya, keep mbrigidiw. 

With love, dik oci, ocidin, mbrigidiw10 :)

Project Of Happines : Day 21

Wait, what? Day 21???

No i am not lazy to write, but before the explanation i wanna say sorry for lack of posting its not because i am being lazy nor productive but i was thinking that i am too open for you guys you know what i mean, i am more like over showing with my readers rather than people in real life. I wasnt saying any words to my bestfriend but i wrote it on blog. I am not facing my problem but rather i write it. Its just not right and I have to fix it there and there. And after that shit happen to me, I prefer to write just my point of my happiness, but i will always try to find the meaning of every shit that happened in my life. So lets just started shall we?

so, i finished my Uni! my final presentation went smooth, and everything went alright. My mom came to accompany me and stuff. I was so happy, all of my hard work of past couple months has been paid off. 

With My PBL (Preman Tandang) Family

 Mas Rogi! My motivator, My spirit, my mentor in everything!

 Sahabat 35 Hari para Pemuda Pangestu

 Temen-Temen OSH FORUM yang selalu berjuang didepan bagian nunggu dosen, di PHP-in, dibikin nangis, dibikin kesel, dibikin seneng dosen, Terima Kasih atas 2tahun bersama! (Kalau udah sukses tolong sumbang nomor antrian buat di depan bagian)

Last but not least, my lovely girls. Terima kasih atas 4tahun bersama! Luv

Thanks to everyone who is coming, and give their precious time just take a photo and congratulate me. Terima kasih kepada para dosen pembimbing dan penguji :) and special to God for making this happen. Jesus Bless You all !

Lots Of Love

XoXo

Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 14

Its day 14th. 

New day new experience right? I always find some meaning everyday either good or bad one and try to understand it.

Stay positive in your life affected by few things one of it is type of people around you, it devided bye two and its only positive or negative one. People can easily change you into bad or good person. And surrounded by negative people can change your mood easily.

By saying negative people i mean people who gives you bad mood, who gives you bad influence in your life. For example, they always hating on someone or something, saying bad things about someone, unmotivated, commenting on your life, anyone who makes your mood level or your self confidence low that kind of people deserve in hell.

I have a negative people in my life of course and i am cutting him off from my life. You know a fuckboy who keeps chatting me, asking me to be with him and all of kind fuckboy stuff. I am the typical a person who dont like to hurt someone's feeling, i keep trying to stay nice  but my kindness is mistaken by him. Like he wont stop chatting me since 2years ago, then i have no patience with this guy because he is such an asshole, i am cutting him off from my life by blocking him on my contact. No i am not regret at all, because I dont want negative people ruining my happiness and my positivity to achieve my goal.

Surrounded by positive, motivated, and successful people is important, because by that you will have a different prespective, higher goals, supporting each other. They are happy with your success, not being envious or try to beat you down. There is no reason to stay with people who makes you unhappy, you deserve to be happy because you are the one who create your own happiness. Lets embrace your happiness and positivity.

Lots Of Love
XoXo
Rosi