Do what you love or Love what you do?

This question has been hanging for me for the past few months but right now i think i have found the answer..

For whom it may concern, my dear friends whom still confused finding the right path of your career, this is completely my sight, 100% you dont have to follow if you think this random post is useless or wrong.

I want to started when I found my real passion, my real love which is writing, i love doing this. That would be great when i get paid for my writing, my story and stuff. So I started to find a platform that could teach me about writing an article, blog and another writing stuff. 

But then I realized, when I got a job between my align major or my passion writing. I was thinking, that would be so easy if i did something i like everyday, but then I realize everytime post something on blog, it was based o what I think or what I feel, dont talk about passion, i am talking something i love, if i doing it by forcement of deadline 3 post a day, i would be dead. There will not be interesting about writing, writing wouldnt be more sexy. I will stop writing and started to hate it. There is no quality in post, i post or write based on deadline. How scary is that. You dont have something you like anymore. 

This is my random thought about what i love to do, of course there is no dream job out there, you will never found it. In the end job is used to hatred. Hahhaa dont get me wrong, sometimes you love sometimes you hate your job very much. But i want to keep something I love, so I can escape to it when I get stressed with my current Job, in the end its all up to you. Do what you love, or love what you do?

XoXo

Rosi

RANDOM THOUGHTS : Jangan takut, rezeki tidak akan tertukar!

Jangan takut, rezeki tidak akan tertukar!

Itulah yang saya tanamkan dalam diri saya saat melihat teman-teman update pekerjaan barunya di media social, tentu saja saya iri dan marah sama diri saya sendiri, apakah ada yang kurang dari CV saya?? Bukan bermaksud sombong atau bagaimana, skill saya berbicara, berorganisasi, berkomunikasi dan menulis lebih baik dibandingkan teman-teman saya yang sudah lebih dahulu diterima kerja.

Memang mencari pekerjaan tidak semudah membalikkan telapak tangan, sebelum saya bekerja di perusahaan saya sekarang saya beberapa kali mencoba melamar ke perusahaan besar maupun startup, dari yang sesuai dengan ilmu disiplin saya sampai yang melenceng dan tidak ada hubungannya dengan major saya, sangking saya sangat ingin bekerja dan tidak menambah beban Negara dengan menjadi pengangguran, apa mau dikata penolakan selalu jawabannya, dari mulai melamar pekerjaan online sampai offline saya pernah cicipi, melamar di sebuah website pencari kerja, mulai dari di view, not-suitable, sampai lamarannya expired alias tidak ada jawaban. Kalaupun ke jobfair saya hanya 5menit karena dipastikan jarang ada posisi yang sesuai dengan major saya. Yah mungkin memang pekerjaan tersebut bukan yang terbaik untuk saya.

Saya bertanya ke teman-teman saya yang sudah diterima kerja diberbagai perusahaan, model cv, resume, semua hal saya tanyakan, mungkin saya melakukan kesalahan sampai 2bulan saya melamar kesana kemari tidak kunjung mendapat jawaban atau bahkan panggilan interview sekalipun.

Saya sudah melewati masa ditanya tetangga, teman bahkan saudara saya kerja dimana, alasannya “baru kemarin wisuda hehe” tapi kehidupan dan penyiksaan sesungguhnya terjadi setelah ijazah keluar, mau pakai alasan apalagi??

Mau nggak mau saya semakin sering buka jobstreet, studentjob, dan website pencari kerja lainnya, semakin sering berdoa dan minta doa dari orang-orang terdekat.

Dan akhirnya, setelah 3minggu menyandang status pengangguran ada dua perusahaan yang menawarkan pekerjaan, yang satu startup dan yang satunya perusahaan besar. Puji Tuhan! Sebelum memilih pekerjaan saya yang sekarang ini saya galau selama 3hari, karena perusahaan tempat saya bekerja ini tidak kunjung memberikan kabar, saya galau dan belum pernah segalau ini di hidup saya, karena berbagai macam pertimbangan dan potensi kedepannya akhirnya saya memilih perusahaan sekarang saya bekerja ini.

Untuk teman-teman yang masih dan akan berjuang mencari pekerjaan, tetaplah berjuang. Jangan mengenal kata menyerah apalagi lelah, semua sudah ada yang mengatur. Dan Yang mengatur pasti memberikan yang terbaik untuk kalian, jangan kecewa jika ada penolakan, tetapi tetap berfikir positif bahwa itu bukan merupakan pekerjaan yang terbaik untuk kalian. Dan tips terakhir, selalu dikelilingi oleh orang-orang yang positif!

Stay positive!

Lots Of Love

Rosi

ROSI ON VACATION : COMPLETE GUIDE TO YOGYAKARTA 2D1N (plus itinerary)

Whats up! Kali ini saya akan menulis perjalanan setelah wisuda, ke Yogyakarta. Saya sudah merencanakan liburan ini bersama sahabat saya, kita berencana akan backpacking kesana. Jadi mau tau ceritanya gimana dua gadis bertualang di Yogyakarta? let's check this out!

Sebelum saya berangkat ke Yogya, saya terlebih dahulu merencanakan mau kemana dan bagaimana cara kita kesana, sempat terpikir untuk membawa motor dari Semarang ke Yogya tapi pasti itu adalah bad idea. Akhirnya kita memutuskan untuk sewa motor selama di Yogya untuk memudahkan akomodasi. Tapi ingat, hanya hari kedua, hari pertama kita keliling Yogya menggunakan TransYogya untuk meminimalisi budget akomodasi (karena fokus kita di makanan (dont judge)) . Untuk penginapan? Percayakan teman, saudara, atau siapapun yang kamu kenal di Yogya, pasti punya kan? yakali nggak punya orang yang bisa ditumpang selama di Yogya, karena terakhir saya check di website agoda, penginapan berbentuk dorm paling murah di Yogya adalah Rp 80.000,- wow cukup untuk membeli 2buah daster di Bringharjo. 

Untuk motor, berbekal Instagram kita contact semua sewa motor di Yogya dengan Hastag #SewaMotorYogya dan happy hunting! Kita ketemu dengan Mas Atiko, deal Ro 60.000,-/Hari waw belum dibagi dua dengan sahabat saya, bensin? Premium Rp 10.000,- cukup. Okay kita mulai ya!

Day One :

07.00 am Berangkat ke Yogya dari terminal bayangan Sukun Semarang, perjalanan kira-kira ditempuh selama 3jam, bayangkan 3jam. Ya saya memilih tidur, karena saya bangun jam 5 untuk make-up and stuff jadi ya lumayan.

10.00 am tiba di terminal jombor, kita langsung naik Trans Yogya menuju Prambanan, dan jangan lupa siapkan E-money or flazz atau semacamnya karena penting banget buat kamu yang travelling di kota yang sudah punya transportasi publik kayak Yogya ini. Kemudian kita naik 2A/2B saya lupa pokoknya nanti transit di terminal condong catur, kemudian naik 3B transit lagi baru deh naik 1A arah prambanan. Tips nih ya, sebenernya ada 1A dari Jombor langsung ke Prambanan tapi lama sekali nunggunya. Jadi naik aja seadanya tapi tanya dulu ya ke mbak/masnya.

11.30 am sampai di Prambanan, bohong. Hanya haltenya saja, jarak dari halte ke Prambanan sekitar 200m, ikutin aja arahnya. Keluar halte belok kiri kemudian luruuusss terus. Capek sih, tapi tenang banyak bule bule juga yang ikutan jalan kaki, jadi ya sekalian cuci mata hehe. Tiket masuk cukup Rp 30.000,- aja sudah bisa keliling candi prambanan. What I dont like about this temple adalah jarak pintu masuk ke Candi begitu dekat, tapi pintu keluar begitu jauh. Ya namanya juga marketing, jadinya kita harus lewat yang jual-jual souvenir Yogya deh oh ya ada rusa juga tapi sayang banget tempatnya gersang, kasian hewan-hewannya kepanasan. Ps: kalau mau beli oleh-oleh disini aja, soalnya lebih murah daripada Malioboro

 Prambanan 2016

With my BFF Nadia, dont forget your sunglasses !

12.30 pm kita memutuskan untuk kembali ke kota, jalan lagi dari Prambanan ke halte. Kita menolak naik becak karena kita mau sekalian makan siang disekitaran Prambanan, ada Sop Ayam Klaten, Chinese Food ya tinggal dipilih aja maunya apa. 

02.00 pm lanjut ke kota naik Trans menuju Malioboro, jadi kita langsung aja naik 1A ke Malioboro, kita udah capek jalan, jadi cuma ke Museum Benteng Vrederburg dengan harga Rp 2000,- kamu udah bisa mencoba Museum yang super canggih di pusat kota Yogya ini. Sambil nunggu meet up sama Mas atiko pemilik motor kita chill dulu aja di cafe indische, masih di sekitaran area Museum kok. Harga? Murah serius gak boong.

 Tiket Masuk Museum

04.00 pm menuju halte untuk ke terminal condong catur, kenapa condongcatur karena kita mau ke daerah Gejayan. Beberapa kali dioper sama Trans alias transit, akhirnya sampai terminal concat sekitar 2jam kemudian. Quick tips nih, sebaiknya kamu bener-bener pelajari banget jalur bus di Yogya karena kalo enggak kamu bakalan dibawa muter sampai bandara padahal jaraknya sangat amat dekat.

Setelah ketemu mas Atiko dan minta maaf karena telat 1jam akhirnya kita on the way daerah gejayan, karena sangat amat dekat hanya tinggal lurus dari terminal condong catur. Ya, kamu kalo suka ke Yogya dan suka banget kuliner tapi gak bikin kantong bolong coba aja telurusin daerah Gejayan ini, ini area kampus sih jadi makanannya murah dan enak. Hari itu saya memutuskan untuk makan di Nanamia Pizzeria, karena Authentic Italian Pasta for Rp 35.000 only? Du'uh

08.00 pm kita capek dan langsung kerumah tante saya untuk menginap. Rumah tante saya di dekat kampus UPN jadi hanya 10menit dari Gejayan. 

DAY TWO :

09.00 am berangkat kita ke Tamansari, bermodal Gmaps dan banyak nyasarnya karena kita berdua sama-sama sulit membedakan kanan dan kiri akhirnya sampai juga disana. Tiket Rp 5.000 aja sister.

Kita gak pake tourguide karena? mahal, jadi tips irit selanjutnya ikut aja rombongan besar terus dengerin deh apa kata Tourguidenya, hehehe. Jadi tamansari ini tempat mandi para selir Sultan, secara kita berdua princess, tak akan terlewat tempat seperti ini. Haha

10.30 am cuss ketemu teman saya Kiki di Tempo Gelato daerah Prawirotaman inisih Balinya Yogya guys jadi jangan kaget banyak Pub disana, ya karena ini tempat hitz gelato di Yogya jadilah sangat amat ramai sekali. Untuk rasa? saya pilih artemy !

12.00 pm its shopping time! Naik motor dan parkir di Mall Maliboro kemudian jalan ke Mirota kemudian Bringharjo, you know just girls things.Tips menawar di Bringharjo : 1. Cari toko yang jauh dari pintu masuk, kemudian memelas bilang "Saya dari Semarang, pingin beliin oleh-oleh tapi uang saya cuma sedikit" skill bahasa Jawa juga tolong dikeluarkan ya !

03.30 pm meluncur ke bakpia enak di Yogya bukan bakpia patuk ya ini ya agak modern dan lebih enak untuk saya personal namanya Kurnia Sari. 1 pack 40.000 aja. Lokasinya di kawasan ringroad, arah terminal Jombor. Bisa googling kan? eh

05.00 pm mengembalikan motor ke yang punya kemudian naik bus kembali ke Semarang

Well, I think that's it for this post. I really love Jogja more than Semarang I believe you guys have your own memories about this lovely city, so it was so pleasant to share my journey to you. Feel free to ask about this trip !

Lots of Love
XoXo
Rosi

Random Thoughts : Insecurities

I can not sleep last night, there are few things that bothered me last night. I dont know, I should not have to think about this. But the more i tried to shut my eyes the harder i fall asleep. Maybe just maybe, this few things bothered you as well. They are beauty and future.

I know, i shouldnt think about my body but i can not. I was so stress last night because i have few acnes big one and i felt like they are covering all over my face (Re: acne) I know its just small thing and yet its normal to have an acne because of hormone, but for me its big deal, i do want to have smooth yet glowing without pimples in my face. I feel i am not pretty because i have an acne, i tried everything to remove them but they are just keep coming from no where. I eat healthy, but still it doesnt work. It makes me uncomfortable to go outside, its just shamefull for me.

Second one, i keep gaining weight. I hate gaining weight, who loves it by the way. I am at home and its hard to control wahtever i ate, then i didnt do workout for almost 3months. Thats very sad. I hate this feeling, means i have to go diet and workout. And by gaining weight i dont like wearing tanktop or sexy dress because i have big arms. Like very big.

I know that you girls or even boys maybe feeling about this at least once in your life time. You know its normal, i am just making drama in my life that both of that things really matter for me. Its just a big liar that someone said “the only matter is pretty inside” oh bitch shut up, you dont know anything, your bae wont see first if you are often giving your money to beggar but first your face and body.

I do need help, I do need positive mind that i dont have to think about this. But for me everytime i go outside its my own catwalk and i dont want to dissapoint my audience by showing bad apperance. No never in my life.

But you know, if you have money means you have everything by everything i mean include pretty face. Well pretty hurts just like Beyonce said, so do whatever makes you pretty, Victoria’s Secret Angels have made new “standard” of being pretty and its unfair. No dont follow them, just be your self, buy cheap lipstick and expensive skin care, buy size S at H&M ( i gained one size to S before i used to buy XS ). Just remember, everytime you go outside its your own catwalk use and wear whatever you feel like you are Kendall Jenner, always looks presentable, fuck the people who used to mock you “fat” or “getting fatter” they dont know your struggles.

XoXo

Lots Of Love

Rosi

Bawen, 25 June 2016

Bawen, 25 Juni 2016

I have never feeling this well, i am surprisingly enjoying my way home by train. I looked up at the scenery its prettier than usual, the sea, the rice fields. The passenger said you only hate the road when you are on our way home. But this time no, i really like it. I remember the first time came to this city alone, full of hate because i know Semarang will be not as good as Jakarta. But i like semarang lots, i am feeling homey here. Someone once said home is not about the place but the feeling.

Its been a while since the last time i read the book, it is very good this time. Murakami succesfully impresed me by his brilliant book, i forgot how good is it to read a book to kill your time with imagination inside the book.

I will miss this time, the road that i used to hate the most, bekasi-semarang. I know sometime i will love this road trip to find my real "home" in semarang. Thanks for the memories, loves, and new friends.

Project Of Happiness : Last Day!

So hello guys! terima kasih karena POH sudah mencapai hari terakhir, lebih dari satu bulan saya menulis POH dan making memories with my close friends in Semarang.

So this post tribute to my closest friends in Semarang, that always making my day positive and happy even in the worst situation. 

So I met them in my first year of uni, simple we were close because we have close student number, then it grew because we always back to our hometown together. Long story short, we are really close till now, we i mean me and my other 9 friends. They are Opa, Mba Dindak, Pika, Kikay, Aini, Indah, Cinting, KK Cula, and Ika. We are so close that other gang is jealous, we are the longest friendship, 4years without drama, 4years full of laugh. No on cant beat them making stories funnier. 

Oh, no we are not the prettiest girl at our campus, but we are the cutest the dumbest, the friendship goal that you are jealous for. I dont need pretty nor high end friends, just friends that making me laugh and ready to give me warm hug when i needed the most because i am living far from my parents and Nadia. So they are the best of the best inner circle i have ever met.

 Ika's Final Presentation

 Mba Dindak's Final Presentation

Cinting's Final Presentation

Hoping this is not our last iftaar :)

This is the time for us to say see you to each other, This is the time i say see you again, in a good way, it has been good 4years of my life, i am sorry for my greedy, ego, anger, and stuf. And thanks for making me freak enough until this point. Finding our path, new chapter of our life, hoping this friendship will last forever. Semoga beneran jadi sosialita ya, keep mbrigidiw. 

With love, dik oci, ocidin, mbrigidiw10 :)

Project Of Happines : Day 21

Wait, what? Day 21???

No i am not lazy to write, but before the explanation i wanna say sorry for lack of posting its not because i am being lazy nor productive but i was thinking that i am too open for you guys you know what i mean, i am more like over showing with my readers rather than people in real life. I wasnt saying any words to my bestfriend but i wrote it on blog. I am not facing my problem but rather i write it. Its just not right and I have to fix it there and there. And after that shit happen to me, I prefer to write just my point of my happiness, but i will always try to find the meaning of every shit that happened in my life. So lets just started shall we?

so, i finished my Uni! my final presentation went smooth, and everything went alright. My mom came to accompany me and stuff. I was so happy, all of my hard work of past couple months has been paid off. 

With My PBL (Preman Tandang) Family

 Mas Rogi! My motivator, My spirit, my mentor in everything!

 Sahabat 35 Hari para Pemuda Pangestu

 Temen-Temen OSH FORUM yang selalu berjuang didepan bagian nunggu dosen, di PHP-in, dibikin nangis, dibikin kesel, dibikin seneng dosen, Terima Kasih atas 2tahun bersama! (Kalau udah sukses tolong sumbang nomor antrian buat di depan bagian)

Last but not least, my lovely girls. Terima kasih atas 4tahun bersama! Luv

Thanks to everyone who is coming, and give their precious time just take a photo and congratulate me. Terima kasih kepada para dosen pembimbing dan penguji :) and special to God for making this happen. Jesus Bless You all !

Lots Of Love

XoXo

Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 14

Its day 14th. 

New day new experience right? I always find some meaning everyday either good or bad one and try to understand it.

Stay positive in your life affected by few things one of it is type of people around you, it devided bye two and its only positive or negative one. People can easily change you into bad or good person. And surrounded by negative people can change your mood easily.

By saying negative people i mean people who gives you bad mood, who gives you bad influence in your life. For example, they always hating on someone or something, saying bad things about someone, unmotivated, commenting on your life, anyone who makes your mood level or your self confidence low that kind of people deserve in hell.

I have a negative people in my life of course and i am cutting him off from my life. You know a fuckboy who keeps chatting me, asking me to be with him and all of kind fuckboy stuff. I am the typical a person who dont like to hurt someone's feeling, i keep trying to stay nice  but my kindness is mistaken by him. Like he wont stop chatting me since 2years ago, then i have no patience with this guy because he is such an asshole, i am cutting him off from my life by blocking him on my contact. No i am not regret at all, because I dont want negative people ruining my happiness and my positivity to achieve my goal.

Surrounded by positive, motivated, and successful people is important, because by that you will have a different prespective, higher goals, supporting each other. They are happy with your success, not being envious or try to beat you down. There is no reason to stay with people who makes you unhappy, you deserve to be happy because you are the one who create your own happiness. Lets embrace your happiness and positivity.

Lots Of Love
XoXo
Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 13

Its been 13th days of my POH, but you know what I have been through. So many drama, so many emotions, so many up and down scenes in my life.

You know I made this project just for fun, I mean I wanna be happy, try to find something in my life that i have been looking for and so far it went well, try to find an hiding mean of all of the shit that happened in my life.

Its not about bad day you know, its about how you rise after you fall, how can you turn that shit day into an happy day. How to control your emotions, how to create a positivity in every negative vibes around. 

Its not an easy journey but I promise you this is worth to try. Because of we are living in a world that blaming someone/something in every condition at our life is a common thing, if that makes sense. 

I mean, that positivity comes from your self, you happiness its all your decision either being happy or sad all the time. Its not coming that easily. When you failed, well thats okay maybe you can be success in you second attempt or maybe third or seven, just keep trying. Its okay if you are failed in some part but it doesnt mean you are always be failed, no thats wrong.

There is no one success in their first try, you know trial and error principal. Thats our life, i keep trying on something that i really want, sometimes its all failed just because God wont let us there thats the another answer. But there is a will, there is a way, maybe not now probably later or maybe not at all but He will replace with something more than what you want as long as you have a willingness and keep praying yet keep trying God will open another door to us.

And one thing, you have to remember :

Ps: i dont know what i am talking about

Lots of Love
XoXo
Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 11

It looks like my POH turns into POSadness . I dont know, i actually dont like complaining but this week was so rough for me. Have I mentioned you that my final presentation is re-scheduled?

Well he said D-1 my final presentation?

Gosh, I actually dont want to write or share this with you guys because of i am feeling so embarrassed right now, i have told everyone about my final presentation, my mom already booked a ticket to come here but God says differently. I dont understand, all of my lecturer said that they could do this tomorrow but its all changed. 

I was crying and calling my mom right after ( i cried so loudly at campus, luckily there was no one there ) my mom tried to calm me down it kinda works, then i was hurry going back to dorm, i cried again, louder this time, and locked my self away from my phone and people. 

At 3pm, i came back to my campus, i was trying to fix any mess that just happened. But it doesnt work, i keep rejecting contact with human, i really dont wanna talk to anyone, even my bestfriend i walk pass by her, i even pretend i didnt see her. Then i remember i hadnt have food since morning so i decide to treat myself eating at the restaurant which has the best fried tofu (it taste like milk). And again, when the waiter asked "why are you alone" then i replied "not your business" (in a high tone!)

Fuck me right, i spread negative energy even to strangers. Its not easy to be positive or happy all the time, sometimes i just need to be selfish. It's hard like really hard turn the shit day into happy day.

And by you have the shit day, you know more about who is really care about you, who's really sincerely listen to you . And its only few people, nadia, and my family. 

Nadia quote was : There are worse thing ahead, always be grateful 

And because of this shit happen, my dad was calling me and said that "everything is okay, it means you have to prepare more" ( i rarely talk to him )

And mom, ugh i dont wanna write about what she said because it so sad but at the same time charge up my spirit and belief, she was so worried about me but idk probably i am the drama queen one.

I made this too dramatically so people will be sympathy with me. 

But on the other side, God really wants to fix something by ruined something, do you get what I mean? My relationship with my dad is worse, but because of this he even call me and calm me down. So if you see bad day into different perspective then its actually not that worse.

There are so many people who is worse than you, just do not comparing yourself to someone "higher" than you but compare yourself with someone "lower" so that you'll be always grateful. Its hard to be positive all day or everyday, because everybody has their own problem so dont bother them with your sadness. And you will not have bad day all years right? sometimes shits happen.

Que Sera-Sera

Lots Of Love
XoXo
Rossi

Project Of Happiness : Day 9

Hallo!

Seperti biasa hari saya membosankan, hehe tetapi tetep meaningful kok tenang aja pemirsah.

Jadi hari ini diawali dengan nganterin Scoobi ke bengkel, karena something wrong with him (kalau penasaran sama Scoobi nanti bakalan ada post khusus tribute buat dia kok tenang aja pemirsah)

Gara-gara habis jatuh dua hari yang lalu deh ya kayaknya jadinya begitu. Anyway my legs are okay now, i can walk but not that fast but its okay lah.

Jadi hari ini biasa banget karena biasa lah bimbingan menuju sidang, jadi kalau di kampus gue itu kita punya pembimbing utama dan pendamping satu orang, pembimbing pendamping gue ini manusia terselaw sepanjang abad, nah pembimbing utama gue ini sangat amat jawa dan memperhatikan tata krama, thats my prespective. Tapi kata orang-orang P1 gue ini sama selawnya kayak P2 tapi buat gue enggak. 

Hari ini niatnya mau bimbingan ke P2 tapi ketemu P1 di kampus dalam hati lumayan nih sekali mancing dapet dua ikan, tapi enggak waktu disapa sama P1 semua masalah bimbingan skripsi hilang dan diganti dengan obrolan receh trus melipir ke lantai 2. Kenapa? karena gue buat janji sama P1 ini rabu besok bukan hari ini, jadi bukan waktu untuk bimbingan dong sebenernya? tapi temen-temen menyayangkan sikap gue ini yang bilang "ih sayang banget aturan bisa langsung gitu"

ini bukan tentang "Sayang banget" tapi tentang manner. Gue adalah orang yang menganggap manner itu hal yang penting, dan menurut gue bimbingan bukan di waktunya adalah manusia tidak punya manner, karena semua ada prosedurnya kamu nggak bisa langsung gitu aja memanfaatkan keadaan. Kalau bukan waktunya ya sabar aja, itu yang gue dapet dari gemblengan kakak kelas dan guru selama sekolah.

Jadi gue heran kenapa kok MOS dan penggemblengan dilarang? Kita tinggal di Indonesia, budaya yang kita anut budaya timur bukan kebarat-baratan. Dari kecil kita disuruh untuk menghormati dan mendahulukan orang yang lebih tua dibanding kita, tapi kok kesannya MOS dianggap penyiksaan sih? Karena aspek yang dilihat saat bekerja nanti adalah aspek manner, kamu punya tata krama atau tidak? Enggak heran banget kalau generasi sekarang terlihat apatis tidak menghormati yang lebih tua, ya karena itu diajarkan untuk sopan santun aja mengeluh, Manner dan etika adalah hal yang paling dasar untuk bertahan disuatu inner circle.

Hal sepele seperti , terima kasih, maaf saja jarang diucapkan kepada orang lain, bagaimana bisa dia menghormati yang lebih tua? Orang tua jaman sekarang cenderung memanjakan dan tidak mau bersikap tegas dan disiplin ke anak mereka, memberikan sesuatu yang anak inginkan hanya aagar si anak diam? betulkah parenting seperti itu?

Generasi sekarang cenderung tidak tahan banting, ya karena itu pengaruh kebarat-baratan yang mengagungkan budaya barat sementara adat ketimuran dilupakan. You are living in Indonesia, if you are going abroad then you will be a representative of whole Indonesia include your ethic and manner. Jadi janganlah kamu ini ikut-ikutanlah jadi kebarat-baratan mulai dari pakaian, gaya hidup yang memang tidak cocok di negara kita ini. Kalau Ibu Kartini melihat perempuan jaman sekarang mungkin beliau menyesal sudah memperjuangkan kesetaraan bagi wanita. Boleh belajar budaya dan bahasa tapi dipilih lagi mana yang cocok dengan budaya timur, budaya asal kamu.

http://www.readersdigest.co.uk/inspire/life-skills/dalai-lama-ethics-more-important-religion

Ethics is more important than religion-Dalai Lama

Lots Of Love

XoXo

Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 7

I am so mad today, like i really disappointed with my life. Today was supposed to be my lazy day but like really its all ruined.

I dont know, at 4pm I decided I have to go to Church or not. And I decided I went to Church. Long story short after church there was heavy rain came. HHHHHHHHH

Then when it stops, i am going back to my dorm then I fall from motorbike. Sucks I know, and all of my laundry wet. What a beautiful day! Right? How if i decided not going to church, that all of shits wont be happened. 

2 things I learnt today, the first one. Blessed more, not only for big things but small things. Coba aja lo abis jatoh dari motor trus ada truck lewat, meninggal gak jadi sidang. Gak jadi sarjana, ya pokoknya kalau kata orang Indonesia "masih untung gak...daripada..." di semua masalah yang ada. Atau kesalahan di diri gue yang terlalu congkak, bahkan hal sepele kayak safety aja gue gak bersyukur. Mungkin suatu saat nanti gak harus sekarang Tuhan bakalan ganti semuanya, mungkin. Gak mau PD juga

second one, going to church is not a responsibility for Christian. Ada satu khotbah yang gue inget banget, gak perlu ke gereja kalo emang kelakuan masih sama, atau pikiran kemana-kemana gak bisa fokus di gereja atau dengan kata lain komunikasi dengan Tuhan gak harus ke gereja, bisa dengan doa doa dirumah, ditempat gelap, tanpa orang tahu kalau kamu lagi komunikasi sama Tuhan. Gue yang congkak, semua orang gue kasih tau "IH GABISA GUE MAU GEREJA" HHHHH 

Mindset orang-orang perlu dirubah untuk masalah pergi ke gereja, menurut saya pergi ke rumah ibadah bukanlah hal yang wajib, bukan berarti iman kamu lebih tebal dibanding saya, Ibu saya rajin menyuruh ke gereja, tapi bukan itu esensi yang ingin saya dapatkan, saya ingin memperbaiki hubungan pribadi saya dengan Tuhan, jika saya haus akan bacaan atau khotbah saya baru akan pergi ke gereja, kalau tidak ya hubungan saya dengan Tuhan cukup didalam kamar, menurut saya lebih intim, saya bisa menangis, bahagia, lebih leluasa mengekspresikan hati saya kepada Tuhan, saya percaya dia sudah tahu apa yang saya inginkan, dia hanya ingin saya meminta. 

Saya bukannya menyuruh kalian untuk stop pergi ke gereja, esensi dari semua agama adalah sekali lagi koneksi kita kepada Sang Pencipta, pasrah dan percaya kalau Dia akan membantu.

Ps: ditulis dengan emosi. 

Lots Of Love
XoXo
Rossi

Project Of Happiness : Day 6

Fiuh....

Finally today is finished. I only slept for 3hrs last night because i have to wake up at 5am ( I was sleeping at 2am duh...

I woke up early in purpose which I have to be a committee for fire fighting in my campus. Last year I was the participant and now i am the committee for this training wow how time flies! Today was major throwback for me, because when i did the training it was my first semester at my concentration so much memories made at that time, the most hectic semester in 4 years because I have to manage my time for national seminar, studying, lab.class and the report and this semester i spent 100% my time at my faculty.

Well, you know sharing is caring right? I'd love to share my experience to other because i am expecting that you could do better than me because you already know how . Today i was sharing my experience to my junior at my campus about fire fighting, tell everything that i know.

I do believe the more you share your knowledge the more you pro at it. So its just like a recall about my experience and knowledge. Sometimes i just dont get why you dont want to share about your knowledge to other, you dont want them to steal your idea nor your knowledge? Dont worry, they can imitate you but they cant duplicate you just like what Dawin song. 

Not only about sharing experience or knowledge but everything, like everything you have. Even if you only have Rp.2000,- at your pocket give it all to the one who need it, because He would replace it with probably something bigger than you expect. Oh I am not talking about material in here it can be your money, your time or your strength, your patience, love, everything. When you share what you have to the right person it would be so priceless. Share it with sincere, and do not expect that she/he would give it back to you but look at the magic touch that you already made. 

Ketika kamu melakukan kebaikan kepada seseorang efeknya akan sangat besar, orang tersebut akan berbuat baik kepada orang selanjutnya terus menerus seperti mata rantai yang tidak akan puts. Sama dengan ketika kamu sharing ilmu dengan orang lain, ilmu itu bakalan diingat dan diteruskan ke orang yang belum tau. Jadi ngapain sih pelit berbagi? takut ilmunya ilang kecolong gitu? Lol

Lots of Love

XoXo

Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 5

A TRIBUTE TO FYKA FERZIANDHANI

Dear reader, let me introduce you to one of my bestfriend ever Fyka. So let's just start my journey with her. 

I met her since my first semester of Uni, and still being a bestfriend until now. The reason why I want to be friend with her because she lives in the same city as me so she must be known few of my friends and thats true.

Our friendship went really smooth, she is an honest person i have ever met so thats why we were never really fought about something. Fyka is a cheerful girl, smartyass too she is a caring, kind, and the most creative besides all of my friends (lol) she often shouts some ideas, sometimes crazy but we love crazy thing. 

She has a really great voice, no wonder if my team went to karaoke place fyka is the one who can sing really well, she joined choir at my Uni and won some medals (an international one) so dont you dare singing next to her.

There are really lots of memory with her i cant write on here one by one, then we are getting really close when we are in same concentration, we both have same dream in a future. With me and kiki we are often having deep talk conversation about anything, we have no secret to each other. Hangout, studying, and even going workout together, we are that close. Even if she doesnt like sport at all! She has kim kardashian body type so she really wants to be skinny, since first semester she is trying to diet but still we both love to eat so its not working haha

Tonight is the last night we spend the night together as an Uni students because she will come back to her hometown and dunno if we will have a great time like this again. So goodluck fyka untuk gelar sarjananya, semoga bermanfaat, maafkan oci kalau ada salah sama fyka, hehe maaf juga kalau suka egois, its nice being your bestfriend dan bisa jalanin perkuliahan ini dari awal sampai selesai, dari putih hitam sampai putih hitam lagi. This is new beginning for you. Sukses dan see you on top!

Project Of Happiness : Day 4

Today was a hectic day! Hari ini seminar hasil saya, diawali dengan pagi yang tidak begitu mengenakan yaitu listrik kostan saya mati, dan hanya kostan saya yang mati! kesel, pusing, mau marah tapi ngapain banget, tapi kesel sih soalnya hari ini hari besar saya Seminar Hasil. Tapi saya sih enggak pantang semangat, saya telfon PLN and while waiting for that i went to my friend's dorm just to charge my notebook and my phone which both of them are dead! 

Menuju Semhas, everything went well. And today was a remarkable day for me, 2 steps have been passed and one step closer till i graduate! Of course I am so happy for that. Because all of my work hard has been paid off. Saya percaya tidak ada hasil yang menghianati usaha walaupun banyak revisi tapi toh saya tetap bisa melewatinya kan.

Thank you for coming and always giving me support to finish this

Selanjutnya, saya kembali kasih surprise ke temen terdekat saya. Chintya. Again being reunited with my main girl is the best medicine for me and charging my spirit to 100x times!

Happy Birthday Chintya!

For closing my day today, I met my 35days friends only. Nothing less nothing more. Repan, Simon, Kak Dhan! My KKN/Maksiat/FullOfBadWords Friends. In my almost 4years college I have no close boyfriend like reyhan and simon I mean friends to talk shit and i can feel free without thinking and care what people think about me and my bae. Well pretty much I can be myself eheh.

Meeting up with your old friend is always fun for me because of we can recall our memories that we made, and I am not agree with paulo coelho, he said that meeting new friends is not fun, no new story to tell, not challenging at all. But for me meeting up with old friends could bring our spirit back, our lame jokes and stuff. And of course level up my happy level.

So what do you think guys, do you agree with Me or Paulo Coelho?

Lots Of Love
XoXo
Rosi

Project Of Happiness : DAY 3

Selamat malam menjelang pagi !

Harap maklum ya saya telat post dikarenakan berbagai macam faktor salah satunya persiapan seminar hasil ehehe... 

Hari ini seperti hari kemarin, saya merasa senang sekali karena teman saya semhas! setelah berjuang bersama bimbingan akhirnya dia semhas juga. hehe tapi saya akan membahas salah satu point of view yang saya alami hari ini.

Saya mau membahas tentang membuat orang lain senang, atau berbuat baik kepada orang lain. Hari ini saya kesal sekali sama diri saya sendiri. Saya pamrih, saya berharap imbalan setelah menolong orang. Saya juga punya kepentingan, tetapi kenapa saya mendahulukan orang lain dibandingkan kepentingan saya sendiri? Toh mau dia susah juga bukan urusan saya, mau dia sial juga saya enggak rugi. 

Tapi saya pikir lagi, apa salahnya membantu orang? apa salahnya berbuat baik kepada orang lain? itu kan tujuan hidup dari manusia yang makhluk sosial? Mungkin bukan dibalas langsung sama orang yang kita bantu, tapi bisa saja melalui perantara orang lain. Saya percaya apa yang kita perbuat ya apa yang kita dapat. Kalau kita baik ya kita juga dapat yang baik. Kalau kita sudah baik tapi orangnya gak peka mungkin Tuhan punya cara untuk memperbaiki diri kita dengan mendatangkan orang yang tidak peka di hidup kita.

Semuanya terkoneksi kalau kamu jeli, berbuat baik jangan pamrih. Ini soal proses pendewasaan diri, ya kalau mereka memanfaatkan kebaikan kita berdoa aja supaya orangnya cepet sadar. Sulit memang untuk tidak egois dan membantu orang lain. But hey being individual is too mainstream why not trying some challenging being kind to everyone for example.

Ini masalah proses menuju kedewasaan, apakah kita akan tetap terperangkap di sifat kekanakan remaja atau kita sudah siap menjadi dewasa? Tidak mudah memang, tapi apa salahnya dicoba :)

Good luck! And please pray for me hehe

ps: tell me if you love the post in English or Bahasa :*

Lots of Love

XoXo

Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 2

Hai hai!

What's up! This is day two of my POH. Today was an awesome day! 

You should know, i am happy because of someone's bliss. Yeap, when my friend is having an happy moment then suddenly i am being happy too, so there are few things that i would like to share with you guisze. First of all i am sorry for late post because today was a long day and I miss this moment, being busy, tired, and happy.

My first happiness comes from my friends Dhiny and Eddy. Two of my bestfriend done with their final presentation. So proud of them, because they are both positive person. I often talking to Dhiny about my problem and so does her. We both support each other, She is the most positive person i have ever met. So I was soooo happy with both of them

Congratulation Dhinny and Eddy, so proud of you both!

Second was my lecture acc my final presentation which will come in two days, and I havent finished my abstract my power point and stuff but still i am excited and I think God has paid for my yesterday misery haha. But thanks to God I just cant explain this.

Third one i think this is the most charging my happiness, my bestfriend is having a birthday!!! Happy birthday Dea kakak cula, we love you! and by celebrating her birthday me and my main girls can talk and laugh more loud and of course charging my spirit ehehe.

 Happy Birthday Kakak Cula! (I'm sorry for the same outfit)

Lots of Love from Sost! (5/10)

The forth, i was calling my mom about today and what my lecture said. But then I was so surprised that she said she was so happy because of she was going with Church group around my area, they were going retreat, praying, eating good food. And all of bunch happy stuff with her new bestfriend, she even thankful to God who has made that meetup. I am so happy to hear that, because my mom often said that she was alone, no one to talk, she needs an air! she needs new atmosphere that can bring new spirit to her at her age. 

Have you ever feeling sooooo happy because of someone's happiness? you are not jealous at all! because you know someone who you love is happy and their happiness make you happy. Got it huh? hahah. Happiness is not only coming from yourself it can be made simply around you. Be thankful about what happened in your life, thats the key to have positive mind, soul, and happy vibes!

Lots of love
XoXo
Rosi

Project Of Happiness : Day 1

Hai!

Its my first day of POH . Kinda excited at the beginning of the day, and i am expecting so much today would be a happy day.

But its all turn shit! Ah you know what, everything that i want to buy are nothing, i couldnt find anything. And the major shit is i couldnt meet my lecture to talk about my final project it makes BIGGEST HEADACHE for me until now.

I am trying to make all of this positive, i was chatting with my lecture to make new schedule and he said tomorrow, so its all fine now. And I was eating at Karuna which is I miss that food and place so much, meeting Kak Anin, and it was kinda throw back for me. My first meeting with her was when she was my VP which was my 1st semester at Uni, I kinda miss my passionate Rosi back then.

I was thinking today would be a good day and happy day but no, I even made a plan which place I wanna go. But God wont let me, because I was too confident that today would be a good day and perfect day. But I should stay positive, I dont wanna make the shit with me all day long, thats why I take a lesson after. You are the one who can turn your mood and make you stay positive not other. Before you bring a positive vibe to other make that vibe first for yourself, before you be someone's happiness be your own happiness.

Just like 1st semester Rosi who wasnt afraid to take a risk joined the biggest Organization, stay foolish and hungry for new things. Today is a happy day because I learnt and remember something important which was missing in my life. And I am not regret that at all. Thanks for today!

Stay Foolish, Stay Hungry! - Steve Jobs

Lots of Love

Rosi

XoXo

Project Of Happiness : Intro

Halo apa kabar semua para pembaca blog ini, hehe. Sudah lama sekali saya tidak ngepost suatu tulisan, karena saya harus fokus menulis satu tulisan ilmiah demi masa depan saya cailah...

Jadi untuk mahasiswa akhir seperti saya pertanyaan "sudah sampai mana" atau "gimana? udah kelar belom" menjadi hal yang biasa ditanyaka semua umat di dunia ini, disatu sisi saya desperately pingin cepat selesain disisi lain itu jadi motivasi yang bikin saya terus on fire sampai hari sidang untuk terus menyelesaikan, sangking on firenya saya lupa untuk bahagia. Saya lupa bahwa disetiap kesulitan pasti ada kebahagiaan. Saya merasakan bahwa hidup saya sangat amat terpuruk saat saya mengerjakan skripsi ini.

Jadi, saya ingin menchallenge diri saya untuk membuat suatu project of happiness namanya, project ini saya akan melakukannya selama 30 hari kedepan. Dimulai dari hari Senin, 22 Mei 2016 dan akan berakhir pada tanggal 21 Juni 2016. Saya akan menulis setiap harinya tentang "happiness" yang terjadi didalam hidup saya, tidak mudah untuk konsisten memang, tetapi saya percaya bahwa disetiap kesulitan pasti ada kebahagiaan yang Tuhan ciptakan untuk saya. 

Im so pumped to start this project, dan berharap kalian juga senang dengan project yang saya buat ini, dan jangan bosan untuk membaca ya! 

Lots Of Love, 

Rosi

XoXo!

RANDOM THOUGHT : HAVE YOU FEELING THANKFUL TODAY?

Halo semuanya..... 

di random thought kali ini gue akan membahas tentang sudahkah kamu bersyukur hari ini?

Di beberapa minggu yang lalu, gue ketemu sama orang-orang yang bisa dibilang ngebuat gue lebih bersyukur dalam hidup. Yang pertama, waktu gue pergi ke gereja gue ketemu sama salah seorang bapak-bapak tua umur 76 tahun yang baru aja sembuh dari opnam, beliau begitu semangat cerita ke gue tentang betapa hebatnya Tuhan menyembuhkan penyakitnya, beliau yakin setelah sadar dari koma pasti Tuhan masih kasih kesempatan untuk memperbaiki diri lagi, untungnya beliau masih dikasih waktu, kalau enggak? Di posisi itu gue merasa bersyukur sama Tuhan kalau gue dan keluarga gue masih diberikan kesehatan sampai sekarang, bahkan untuk di rawat di rumah sakit aja belum pernah. Ajaib kan? Emang. Sepele kan? Pasti, tapi hal sederhana ini yang bikin gue merasa bersyukur masih dikasih sehat sempurna, bayangin orang lain yang lagi berjuang buat ngelawan penyakitnya. Ini ngebuat gue selalu merasa gue harus menjaga badan gue mulai dari pola makan sampai olahraga karena gue gak mau sakit gara-gara jantung koroner, ginjal dan hal mengerikan lainnya.

Kedua, temen sekelas gue di kampus. Kebetulan banget gue seharian duduk sebelahan sama dia dan gue merasa malu sama diri gue sendiri. Sehabis pelatihan seharga 4 juta gue tanya sama dia "Mas, abis ini enaknya di kosan ngapain ya? mandi trus tidur kali ya" Terus dia jawab "Enggak lah ci, aku mau baca-baca modul pelatihan sama ringkas-ringas sedikit, sayang uang 4 juta kalau enggak dibaca modulnya" disitu gue malu banget, serius. Gue dengan enaknya minta uang sama orang tua gue buat pelatihan dan enggak manfaatin uang itu dengan baik, bahkan cenderung menghamburkan demi sebuah sertifikat tanpa paham ilmunya. Gue malu sama dia, sama diri gue sendiri enggak seharusnya gue sia-siain uang orang tua gue dengan gampangnya aja, they made it with all of their strength and blood and cried, and stuff. 

Ketiga, sebenernya ada alasan kenapa gue pilih kuliah enggak di jakarta atau kota besar lainnya kayak bandung, sepele karena gue itu orangya gampang kebawa arus. Gue pasti ayo aja kalau diajak makan di tempat fancy, gue pasti kerjain tugas di cafe mahal yang satu cangkir bisa buat makan gue selama 3 hari di Semarang. Karena gue takut kehilangan momen update foto nongkrong cantik, gue takut kehilangan temen-temen gue kalo gue gak ikut, dan gue takut mereka mandang gue bukan dari keluarga yang mampu. Asal kalian tau aja, dibilang cukup keluarga gue lebih dari cukup, cuma emang orang tua gue enggak pernah mendidik gue untuk jadi hedon, untuk makan dimanapun gue mau, uang kalau habis tinggal minta. Enggak sama sekali, keluarga gue selalu mengajarkan untuk melihat kebawah, melihat yang kekurangan, kalau gue liat ke atas gue akan selalu merasa kekurangan gak punya apa-apa, tapi dengan melihat kebawah gue akan semakin bersyukur dengan apa yang gue punya sekarang, dengan segala kelebihan dan fasilitas yang dikasih ke gue. 

Itulah alasan kenapa gue nge delete semua media sosial yang berdampak buruk buat gue kayak path,dan instagram. Yang ada di otak gue sekarang adalah gimana caranya update biar dapet likes banyak, apa gue harus ke tempat fancy atau gue harus pake baju branded terus ngetag designer atau storenya, itu semua gue anggep sebagai bad influence buat hidup gue kedepannya, karena persaingannya udah gak sehat, persaingannya buat gue gak pernah bersyukur dan merasa puas dengan apa yang gue punya sekarang dibandingkan temen-temen yang hidupnya kekurangan. 

Banyak banget hal kecil yang bisa kamu syukuri setiap harinya, hal kecil buat kamu mungkin sesuatu hal yang sangat besar bagi orang lain. merasa kurang dalam ilmu boleh banget, tapi kalau harta? 

Surat Untuk Tuan

Ku panggil kau tuan saja, 

karena ku tak tahu harus menyebutmu dengan sebutan apa. 

Sayang? terlalu berlebihan

Setelah kau datang pada hari itu, aku percaya bahwa tidak ada yang tak mungkin ku dapatkan termasuk engkau..

Tetapi nasib berkata lain, engkau pergi tanpa sebab yang jelas

Dan bertingkah seolah-olah kita tidak pernah saling mencinta..

Oh tuan, sampai kapan kau mau terus berpura-pura? Bukankah itu menyiksa engkau?

Akupun disini tersiksa, berlagak seperti tidak mengenal satu sama lain..

Jangan khawatir, tak sedetik pun aku lupa dengan tuan

Lagu Rindu

Tulisan ini aku buat untuk Dia, yang tidak ku ketahui wujudnya, tapi aku selalu percaya pada-Nya.

Ini soal bagaimana cara kita menghadapi Dia yang rindu kepada kita? Kita yang selalu mangkir untuk bersipuh menyembah-Nya. Tidak, aku bukan orang yang religius tapi aku percaya bahwa kuasaNya nyata. Aku hanya setitik ciptaanNya yang selalu mendapatkan perhatian dariNya.

Mungkin Dia terlalu sayang padaku, Dia rindu padaku. Dia ingin aku selalu menyapaNya pagi maupun malam hari. Maka dari itu tak hentinya dia mencobai aku, agar aku semakin dekat padanya. Yang saya tahu Dia tidak akan murka kepada hambaNya, Dia cuma terlalu sayang, terlalu rindu untuk berbicara padaku, Dia ingin aku lebih baik lagi dari sebelumnya.

Dia sangat pencemburu, Dia ingin di nomor satukan, Dia tidak ingin hambaNya lebih mencintai ciptaanNya dibanding Sang Pencipta.

Kau tau bukan kuasaNya sangat besar? Dia bukan pengacaramu yang akan membelamu mati-matian jika kamu berbuat kesalahan, siapalah kamu? Tidak pernah sekolah bisa-bisanya mengatakan kau sedang di uji.

Karena aku tahu, untuk itu aku selalu memintaNya untuk selalu membimbingku dan memberikan aku kekuatan atas segala hal pencobaanNya, kalau dipikir dengan akal sehat aku tidak akan mampu kuat dalam menjalani kehidupan ini. 

Dia tidak membencimu, Dia hanya rindu

VEGETARIAN PROGRESS WEEK 24 : WHAT IS LYF??!!

WHAT IS LYF!!!

Halo everybodyyy, how you doin?

Well. I am just busy with my final thesis so i am sorry for late post hehe. Actually I dont know if there is anybody who read this blog every week not only when I wrote about LGBT which is surprisringly soo much people out the who read my writing ( It’s just because i was spreading it to all of my social media lol!)

So on this post I wanna share with you my all time favorite vegetarian or vegan product that is always on my pantry means I bought it frequently like i cant live without that lol. Soooo without further to do lets start!

• Carbs area

So basically, i always buying and stock any carbs. I have never forget to buy a bread everytime I go to supermarket. And then Pasta!!!!! Who  doesnt love pasta, gosh i could make anything with pasta either fussili or spaghetti. Mamamia! The next is cereal like O.M.G its just like my new addiction!!!!!!!! I combine the 2 cereals and its just like bomb! CARB IS MY LYF I CAN NOT LIVE WITHOUT CARB!!!!

•  Tomato sauce

Like can you live without sauce or sambal in your life? I cant because I am an Indonesian #ProudIndonesian. Actually I really want to try sriracha but I dont know we will see. I have read some good comment about sriracha so why not trying something new.

• Peanut Butter

Who doesnt love this? My favorite is from Morin and chunky one. I dont know i just love food which still has a texture on it and I told you when you toast the bread and spreading the peanut butter it is just oh my God!!!! Or try to eat that with nanas. And you are welcome :P

•    BANANA

-NO NEED A REASON TO NOT LOVE BANANA-

• NORI

          Maybe i am a weirdo but i put nori most on my food, because why not

• TOFU

GOSH GOSH I CAN NOT LIVE A SINGLE DAY WITHOUT EATING A TOFU. Like tofu is my bae, seriously. I will be feeling weird if i am not eating tofu a day. I prefer tofu than tempeh because idk men, no need a reason to love something.

• CITRUS

Either its lemon or orange or just vitamin C, i will consume it  every  single day. I prefer citrusy fruit rather than sweet fruit like apple. I love the smell, taste, it is just refreshing. Haha. You dont believe I love citrus that much? My air freshner smell lime and orange and lemon, my body shower smells lemon, my pestiside smells lemon.

Soooo, I think that’s it for today, i hope you like my post and try some of those stuff. Bye Bye and please keep reading my blog. Thank You!

RANDOM THOUGHT : LGBT

Hai, 

Apa kabar semuanya? Mohon maaf atas keterlambatan posting di blog ya karena ada beberapa faktor yang bikin menghambat. Well, actually I hate excuse . But anyway, dikala waktu senggang gue masih suka banget buka Facebook, line, semuanya didominasi sama LGBT, sampai nyokap gue ikutan ngerti tentang LGBT dan segala isinya. 

Tapi, sebenernya apa sih itu LGBT ?

LGBT merupakan akronim dari lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender. Akronim ini dibuat dengan tujuan untuk menekankan keanekaragaman "budaya yang berdasarkan identitas seksualitas dan gender. Istilah ini mencuat setelah Menteri Ristek yang mengecam acara Mahasiswa UI yang mendukung komunitas LGBT ini. 

Sebenernya menurut pandangan saya pribadi tidak ada yang salah dengan keanekaragaman sekual, karena saya dibesarkan di keluarga yang beraneka ragam macam budaya, istilah kerennya living diversity, menurut keluarga saya tidak ada yang salah dengan perbedaan, karena perbedaan itu adalah hal yang wajar dan kita harus belajar untuk menerima. 

Bahkan Ibu saya berkomentar "apa yang salah dengan LGBT, namanya juga perasaan ya nggak bisa di kontrol" 

Saya pribadi sependapat dengan apa yang dikatakan ibu saya, lha namanya juga perasaan masa bisa diatur mau suka sama yang beda jenis kelamin atau tidak. 

Tapi ini menarik, ketika dikaitkan dengan Agama, saya sendiri bukan orang yang religius tidak seperti Ibu saya, tapi saya percaya Tuhan menciptakan laki-laki dengan perempuan itu pasti ada tujuannya, bukan maksud sok religius tapi jika dipikir dengan akal sehat Tuhan pernah bersabda untuk beranak cucu, tapi kalau dengan sesama jenis apakah bisa? 

Sangat seru jika melihat postingan teman-teman di media sosial tentang ke sok-tahuan mereka tentang kaum LGBT akan masuk neraka karena dilaknat oleh Tuhan. Pertanyaannya disini kamu itu siapa? pernah berbincang langsung dengan Tuhan dan tahu persis siapa yang boleh dan tidak boleh masuk surga? Lucu, karena mereka sering sekali memposting hal yang menurut saya tidak etis untuk ditampilkan, hanya karena ditulis oleh Habib atau orang yang mengerti akan agama dan belum pernah mencicipi serta bertemu langsung dengan Sang Pencipta mereka langsung mempercayai tanpa mencari tau penelitian terbaru tentang LGBT ini.

Gue iseng cari artikel tentang LGBT ini, bener gak sih gay ini adalah sesuatu yang terbentuk dari dalam kandungan? Jadi gue nemu artikel, tentang penelitian terbaru "Gay Genes", jadi penelitian ini tentang dua anak kembar yang satu "gay" dan yang satu normal. Jadi namanya bukan gen, tapi sex hormon yang berbeda jauh banget sama gen. Kita gak bakal bahas tentang gen, karena itu bukan hal yang menyebabkan seseorang jadi berubah orientasi seksual, tapi sex hormon lah yang buat itu semua, serta lingkungan yang mendukung membuat seseorang menjadi "gay" kalau mau baca lengkap bisa baca disini ya : https://www.theguardian.com/science/blog/2015/jul/24/gay-genes-science-is-on-the-right-track-were-born-this-way-lets-deal-with-it

Jadi, saya bukannya mendukung atau mencekal adanya komunitas LGBT karena sekali lagi mendukung atau tidaknya berdasarkan presepsi serta pengetahuan masing-masing orang. Cuma saya sangat menyayangkan sekali kalau sampai kaum LGBT ini sampai dikucilkan serta diasingkan oleh masyarakat serta dipandang negatif hanya karena dia memiliki kelebihan sex hormon didalam dirinya, karena kamu bukan Penciptanya, kamu harus belajar mencintai dan menghargai sesama. Menurut saya jika seseorang sudah bisa mencintai tanpa harus ada alasan itu merupakan strata tertinggi dalam kehidupan, apalagi yang kita cari selain perasaan nyaman serta aman seperti Teori Maslow, merasa aman dan dicintai merupakan suatu kebutuhan setelah kebutuhan sandang dan papan, sampai kapan kita mau terus fokus mencari kebutuhan sandang, pangan, papan? Manusia membutuhkan rasa aman serta kasih sayang tidak terkecuali kaum LGBT. Am I right reader?